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What do men expect from women during sex?

Asked by:Louise

Asked on:Apr 01, 2026 06:45 PM

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  • Greta Greta

    Apr 01, 2026

      First expectation: I hope she also has a sense of humor

      Men are divided on this issue, those who think it's important and those who ignore it entirely. The former believes that a humorous atmosphere can help alleviate embarrassing situations, and adding jokes can spark the spark of love. It's not a bad thing if you occasionally seem stupid in bed. Let's laugh happily together, not at you or at me.

      How to determine a man's humor ability? He can act with irony, can get along with women happily, and has masculine charm. With such a person, sexual companionship is always a pleasure.

      According to the latter, sex is a work (or a dramatic event). For him, sex is a mood, and mood is a very important event, similar to business behavior. He rarely spoke, either in bed or out of bed. In the drama-like passion of love-making, his behavior reminds you of a general going about his official duties. So, as a woman, you tell him there's a difference and you have to show your humor.

      Second expectation: I hope she has an orgasm

      Some data show that if a man finds that he cannot bring too much pleasure to a woman, he will feel sad. Even if he can enjoy a rich dinner and watch exciting football, he will not feel happy. As a woman, your passion and visible pleasure are the most essential things.

      But if a man doesn't realize it or doesn't take advantage of it, then you will still be very depressed. You want to say something like, everything you do is so wonderful, I don't think I can wait until night comes. This will change the awkward situation and lead him to where you want to go.

      The third expectation: I hope she wears something sexy in bed

      Who cares what she wears? This is always a secondary issue. said one man, speaking what most men were saying. But whether you are dressed sexy or not can often affect how long your orgasm lasts. And duration is often a concern for men. If a man is asked: When you take off her clothes, if she wears something sexy, do you like it? Most people admit that they do.

      A man who didn't care much about this replied: No matter what, it's fine with me, as long as she doesn't wear too much. There are indeed great differences on this issue, but it cannot be denied that clothing is a factor that cannot be ignored. Some men will become excited when they look at underwear and stockings.

      Fourth expectation: I hope she has a normal sexual attitude

      This factor is important. Sometimes men are pleasantly surprised to find that women can be just as sex-crazed as I am. Some women even come harder than men. According to some women: Oh, my God, I think about doing this kind of thing all day long. She said that she had this urge when she walked into the house and stepped on the carpet. Once she really did this kind of thing, she would be infinitely lingering, making the man's passion ripple, and every move made him feel just right.

      A serious and stern-faced woman is definitely not good for sex, and men don’t want to see her being too wild and crazy. Men think it’s better for women to have one healthy Normal sexual attitudes. The man said, I hope she can have sex with me with a touch of humanity, but that's not entirely the case. Therefore, if a man is timid about having sex, the reason lies more in the woman's attitude problem rather than the man's physical problem.