Clio Researchers randomly surveyed thousands of people in the United States and Australia and found that the most appropriate time for substantive love (counting from the beginning of sexual organ contact) is 7-13 minutes.
Most of the respondents, especially male It is said that if the actual love lasts for more than 13 minutes, the fatigue will increase and it will be difficult to recover the physical strength; if it lasts for less than 7 minutes, there will be a feeling of unfinished love.
It is said that this study is to make many people understand that the idea that "perfect sex takes longer and longer" is nonsense. Research leader Eric Coote explained that people always have unrealistic "assumptions" about sex.
“For example, men should have a thick penis, have a strong erection, and be tireless in lingering all night long. This is obviously people's wishful thinking during the day. Dream ’, however many people take it for granted and even use it as a criterion for measuring sexual ability. ”The result is that people who have no problems begin to worry about their sexual performance, which may induce a series of sexual problems over time. sexual dysfunction。
When men deliberately delay time, their original intention is nothing more than hope female It also provides longer lasting pleasure and ensures she reaches those wonderful high points.
In fact, men should understand that there are many ways to satisfy women. Increasing, changing, and enriching the content of foreplay, and whetting her appetite before substantive love, are more effective than monotonous mechanical exercises.
In addition, men should know more about their partners' sensitive areas and provide gentle and appropriate stimulation, which can also better arouse women's desire and make her take more initiative in sex. Women themselves should also communicate more with their partners about problems that arise in their sexual life, so that they can understand that time is not an important factor in determining the quality of sex.
Sex life is a matter of two people, and it will only change qualitatively if both parties truly pay attention to and listen to each other's needs.
